> At a Glance
> – Maisie Biddle will receive her legal name change as a birthday surprise in January
> – She rejected her birth name Margaret since first learning to talk
> – Parents Amanda and Dan Biddle filed paperwork after years of hesitation
> – Why it matters: Highlights growing trend of parents trusting kids’ self-identity early
Most kids want toys or trips for their sixth birthday. Maisie Biddle is getting a new legal name-one she picked herself before she could spell it.
The Name She Always Knew
From her first sentences, Maisie corrected anyone who called her Margaret, the name given to honor her late great-grandmother. At doctor visits, school roll call, and family introductions, she ignored “Margaret” and insisted, “I’m Maisie.”
Parents Amanda and Dan Biddle tried compromise tactics-calling Margaret the “fancy” name and Maisie the nickname-but their daughter never budged.

- Doctor-office staff call “Margaret”; she doesn’t respond
- School paperwork lists “Margaret”; she crosses it out
- Amanda repeatedly asks offices to add system notes saying “Goes by Maisie”
The Decision to Change It
The constant corrections wore on the family. Amanda realized her daughter would spend decades explaining the mismatch. Kitchen-table talks over time revealed the same answer: “My name is Maisie.”
Consistency sealed the choice. The Biddles asked open questions, avoided steering, and each time Maisie placed Margaret in the middle slot of her ideal name: Maisie Margaret-Olivia.
| Current Legal Name | New Legal Name |
|---|---|
| Margaret | Maisie Margaret-Olivia |
| Used only on documents | Will match daily use |
Online Reaction
After Amanda shared the decision on Threads, thousands applauded:
- Adults recounted living decades with ill-fitting names
- Parents praised the practicality of changing it at six versus 26
- Others called it the “greatest gift” of validation
Amanda sees the change as proof that young kids deserve trust in knowing who they are.
Key Takeaways
- Consistent self-advocacy convinced parents to act
- Legal switch happens before kindergarten enrollment
- Online support highlights wider cultural shift on self-identity
- Total cost: filing fees plus a birthday-candle reveal
Come January, when the paperwork is finalized, Amanda predicts Maisie will react with her trademark move: hands clasped, jumping, gleeful screaming-celebrating a name that finally matches her sense of self.

